Seven steps to closet HEAVEN

So, you should be in the car and at least four miles down the road and instead, you are on your knees hurling shoes behind you not caring whom they hit and maybe even hoping for contact. You’re frustrated and late and if you’re like me … SUPER annoyed that you’ve started sweating and now curly hair is now a complete fail.

Life with a cluttered closet is like that.

So, you decide to make a change. Maybe you take over the closet in the hallway, or by the front door. You could even take over your husbands closet or his space in your shared closet at least. (Let’s be honest – he has too much of it anyway. How many hobby t-shirts should one person own anyway?) Your shoes are DYING to breathe.

Ok, you you could do that – if you haven’t already OR you could do this:

begin with the end in mind


“If you don’t know where you’re going, you’re never gonna get there.” 

What does your perfect closet look like?

I’m serious, what does it look like? If you don’t have a clear idea about what you want, it doesn’t matter what you’re doing, you will never get it.


Are all of your shoes displayed? Are your sweaters neatly folded? Can you see the floor and the walls? Do all of the hangers match? What is hanging in this perfect closet of yours? Does everything fit? Is everything wearable?

Once you’ve seen the future, prepare for it!







Even these?

Temptation: Should you remove these hangers? I mean, they are good hangers. Someone could use them. It seems like a waste to throw them away or not to use them. What am I, too good for unmatched hangers?

Truth: In this closets vision we saw matching hangers, so these need to find a new home. We gave ours to a relative who recently moved into their own place.

Getting the closet ready is part of the process of putting it back together. 

Closet 14

The canvas is ready. Let’s pick out paint!


By this time you have moved everything out of your closet and into a pile in a different room. But, unless you never store an out of season item anywhere else, you’ll need to make the pile bigger before we can sort it out.

Find your winter jackets, summer flip flops – anything that you have stored in another room or a different place. Closets, drawers, attics, basement, your sisters closet, your car…  Whatever, where ever. Find it, and pile it.

TIP* if you have a bin of winter clothes, take the items out of the bin. If you have shoes in the box, take them out.


If you see a shirt and touch it. Do you love it? You may realize, it’s not the shirt you love. It may be what it represents.

I recently gave away a pair of shoes that I’ve been carrying around for 13 years. They were a sentimental pair of men’s size 13 shoes and I didn’t love them. I loved the person who last wore them.

If you love it, it stays. If you don’t LOVE it, it goes.

Sort shirts with shirts (I love you, I love you not), pants with pants, shoes with shoes, etc.

If you have never done this with your closet, your piles should be about the same size when you are finished.



If you’ve made it this far, you’re in the home stretch and this is getting fun!

Fold all your foldable clothes. We chose to add containers to this closet to use every inch of space. Each container holds anywhere from 3 pair of jeans to 15 t-shirts. All folded and easy to see.

I try to encourage a kind of folding that will keep things neat for years to come.

Watch my mentor explain the art of folding.



Hang anything that needs a hanger now. (And these should be the first items you put back in your closet!)


You may find a few items that you don’t LOVE on second touch. Discard them immediately.

Do not give space to anything you do not LOVE.

You might be tempted to quit, or put things on hold about now. Please keep going!

The biggest killer of progress is lack of momentum. If you are rolling, keep rolling. Roll right over that finish line!



This is my favorite part of any organizing project. I love finding a home for each item I have decided to keep.

Closet 10

In this closet, you may notice we had to add a shelf. (Hey, sometimes you need to do that!)

The purses are full of purses and  the shoe box is full of out of season shoes.

In this closet we found space for:

Winter clothes, summer clothes, summer shoes, winter shoes (including boots!), winter jackets and coats (there are 3), shorts and leggings, and those are just the things you can’t see!

There is nothing in this closet that is not in consistent use.

Imagine how much time you would save not scrolling by those items you scroll by every day…

Before you crack the champagne, remember the last step:


Why is this part of the closet? After all these items are not longer residing in my closet…  Adding this step to your list ensures your won’t have to touch the bags, boxes and piles again. It also ensures you won’t make a different decision about the items in a moment of weakness.

Keep the momentum going and get the discards gone.

Be sure to move the discarded ple out of your home as soon as possible. If you are able, take it to the donation center today!

You may feel compelled to give a few items to friends or family members.

Before you do, consider this: Is the item something they need and will LOVE?

If you can’t say yes to both of those questions, you might be doing them a bigger favor by discarding the items yourself.

I have a sister that is very sentimental. I am careful about what I give her because I know that when the time comes to discard it, she may be riddled with guilt because I am her favorite sister, and she loves me so much and I “gifted” this item to her…

If you love someone, give them a gift they need and will love. Otherwise, can you even call it a gift?

Closet 8

Here is the final discard pile, it left with me and was donated within 24 hours.



If you can dream it, you can do it.

Just be sure you make your decisions with the

finish line

in mind…







Never-Too-Late Life Lessons

Organize this.

Done not Perfect


There’s a sweet spot, isn’t there?

A sweet spot for answering emails, returning calls, cooking, cleaning, tidying and for this, for writing. I fear I’ve missed mine tonight. And normally, I’d just wait, then until tomorrow. But, you know what? For those with dreams and ambitions and ideas that flow more freely than gossip from US Weekly, tomorrow never comes. Tomorrow is a new idea and a new set of tasks.

So, if done really is better than perfect – then less than perfect, yet completely done this shall be.

After countless interruptions by my children and multiple pleas to my husband to help with said small people, I have read and/or listened to at least 6 books, found multiple hiding objects in another, watched a Youtube video about Minecraft, got snacks, ate snacks, yelled, pleaded and when it’s all said and done, I sit down – finally alone (sans the sound of my daughter wailing on the other side of the wall for her father who, sits oblivious on the other side of the house with tele up so loud he’d have a hard time hearing a nuclear blast) in the midst of complete and utter chaos and disorder to start a blog on….. wait for it…. organizing. Yeah, I fear I have missed my sweet spot. This will no doubt not be my best work. Fitting, I think and completely right. Really, I guess I shouldn’t have it any other way.

I mean, I’ve never been able to learn from the perfect. It’s nearly impossible. As a matter of fact, I think the only times I have mustered up a lesson from those whom never make a mistake is to remind myself that their behavior is a perfect model of what “not to do”. Those who refuse to admit their short comings lose out on so many life changing moments. My best 180’s came during or resulted directly from an enormous mistake. It’s sad really, to think that for those few, that could be it. I often wonder, when I am knee deep in a conversation with one of them, do they look around and think, “Well, I’ve nailed it. I got this down. I’ve learned everything.” or do they just act that way and truly feel another?

I believe that anyone at any time, should they so choose can do more, can become more. It is not a matter of geography, nor upbringing, nor religion, nor does it matter how many diplomas, degrees or titles one holds or does not. I truly believe that anyone can, should they so desire, become whatever it is that they want to become. So, if that is true then I can become better at navigating this new life of mine. And, so I will.